Have you ever wanted to do something – perhaps take lessons
on a musical instrument, try a new hobby, travel somewhere you’ve always wanted
to see? How about making a major life change, such as leaving a job where you
feel stuck, going back to get a college degree, or starting a new career?
Most of us have, probably more than once. Unfortunately, our
“want to” wasn’t strong enough to become “have to.” We spent time wishing things were different, but not doing much
about it.
That’s why I’m so excited about the new book my friend, Gary
Highfield, has written. In fact, When
‘Want To’ Becomes ‘Have To!’ is a book that you – and someone you know –
need to read.
In When 'Want To' Becomes 'Have To!' Gary Highfield tells an unforgettable story. |
Enduring a very difficult childhood, encountering nearly every
form of adversity a young person could face, Gary had lots of “want to.” Many
times he imagined his life being different. I won’t give
the details – that would spoil your enjoyment of his amazing story. But one day
his “want to” turned into “have to.” Gary realized there was no
point in waiting for someone to change his situation and provide the better
life he desired for his family. He had to take steps to initiate the changes.
Not that he wasn’t already trying. Gary had a dead-end,
hourly wage job doing manual labor. He also worked odd jobs to earn a few extra
dollars. But he still couldn’t afford to occasionally take his family of five
to an inexpensive restaurant. What he needed was not to work harder or longer,
but to work smarter – and develop talents and abilities God had given him.
Three apparent setbacks turned into proverbial blessings in
disguise, escalating Gary’s quest for a better life: being turned down for food
stamps; being refused a $1 an hour raise at work; and being terminated from his
first sales job – ironically, because he did it too well. Refusing to accept
failure as a final verdict, Gary ratcheted up his determination, practically
begging for a probationary sales job with a cellular phone company in the
industry’s early years.
Applying principles and strategies he’d learned by reading inspirational and self-help books, listening to motivational tapes, receiving
timely, providential help from friends and strangers, and pushing himself
outside his own comfort zone, Gary became his company’s top salesman.
Throughout his life, people had told him, “You can’t do that,” but he ignored
them. As Gary says today, “Impossible is only possible if you quit.”
Writing a book is one of his “impossibilities.” He and I met
more than a year ago through a mutual friend. Gary had compiled a very rough
draft for a book, telling his story and sharing many of the insights he’d
gained through years of struggle, resolve and finally, success. But he
recognized he wasn’t a writer. That’s where I came in. Over the next 12 months
I served as his editor, helping shape and refine his content into a book we
both believe can make a profound difference in many people’s lives.
When you read When
‘Want To’ Becomes ‘Have To!’ you’ll discover Gary’s moving, sometimes
heart-wrenching, sometimes funny account of grit, gumption, guile and most of
all, God’s grace.
As we worked together on the book, several Bible passages
came to mind. “If anyone will not work,
neither let him eat,” 2 Thessalonians 3:10 declares. (This verse, curiously
enough, was adapted into the Communist Manifesto by Karl Marx.) Gary was more
than willing to work, and work hard. He just needed to learn how to work
better.
Proverbs 21:5 states, “The
plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.” Gary
didn’t become an overnight success, not by any imaginative stretch. He set
goals, met with people to learn from them, embraced a vision and pursued it. He
planned his work and worked his plan, lifting his family from the shadow of
poverty.
His unique life and career journey could be summarized by
Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with
all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways
acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.” He did what he
believed was right, even when the outcome wasn't clear. Sometimes his
wife, Kimberly, wondered about what he was doing. But keeping one eye on God
and one eye on the plow, Gary was able to achieve the fulfilling
life of his dreams.
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