How do you measure what a successful day looks like to you? |
Margaret Thatcher, the first female prime minister of Great
Britain, died recently after suffering a stroke. Serving from 1975 to 1990 as
the leader of the nation’s Conservative Party, she earned the nickname, “Iron
Lady,” for her personal and political toughness.
After her passing, some of her best-known quotations
circulated, but this one caught my eye: “Look at a day when you are
supremely satisfied at the end. It’s not a day when you lounge around doing
nothing; it’s when you’ve had everything to do and you’ve done it.”
There’s great wisdom in that simple statement. Certainly
there’s a time for relaxing, for what some people call “chilling,” but
satisfaction is most often derived from a sense of having done something – and
having done it well.
Mrs. Thatcher’s quote reminded me of a time when my friend,
Ed Thompson, asked a group of men he was meeting with, “How do you measure what
a successful day looks like to you?”
How would you answer that question?
Each of us likely would have a very different response,
given our unique interests, abilities, passions and opportunities available to
us. But in light of the reality that we share one thing in common – every day
consists of 24 hours, no more and no less – our challenge is how we intend to
use those hours.
Psalm 118:24 states, “This
is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.” Understanding
God is the author of each day, offering it to us as a gift, how we spend – or
invest – the time is a matter of stewardship. Are we going to devote the entire
time to reclining on the couch, saturating our minds with inane TV programming,
or mastering a video game, or are we going to dedicate the time to something of
enduring value?
Again, “something of value” means different things to us
all. It could mean working in the yard, painting a room, playing golf or tennis
with a friend, visiting a relative, taking a day trip to a place of interest, or
even reading a book. (Does anyone still do that?)
Being a writer, for me a successful day often involves one
or more writing projects – an article, a blog post, or a chapter in a book I’ve
been working on. But even though I’m not a real outdoorsy-type of guy,
sometimes mowing the lawn, trimming some bushes or sprucing up the yard in some
way also feels “successful.”
For Type-A personalities, checking items off the day’s to-do
list can be very fulfilling. But perhaps the most successful days occur in the
context of relationships, investing time and energy in the lives of others. The
late Ted DeMoss, a man I worked with for years and greatly admired, often
observed when it’s all said and done, "all that remain will be the Word of God
and people."
It’s been said that no one on his or her deathbed has declared,
“I wished I’d spent more time at work.” We can achieve satisfaction from completing
projects. But the process of developing and nurturing relationships – with
spouses, children, grandchildren, friends, people God has brought into our lives
– provides benefits that surpass a daily checklist.
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