For most of my life I’ve been an avid sports fan. Besides rooting for my favorite teams, one of the primary reasons is how sports can mirror the everyday realities of life.
The college football season is only a few weeks old, but we’ve already had teams that dominated most of the game but ran out of steam at the end, resulting in crushing defeat. We see something similar in auto racing, whether it’s NASCAR, IndyCar, Formula One or whatever: A driver can lead most of the race, even into the last lap, and still lose due to mechanical failure, a blown tire, running out of fuel or crashing.
In Olympic running events, whether sprints or marathons, often the leader at the start – and even near the end – isn’t the one who wins the race. It’s like that for baseball, basketball, soccer, swimming or any other competition. They all must adhere to a basic principle: It’s not how you start but how you finish.
This reality is even more impactful for our journey through everyday living. We might start a new job full of excitement, more than willing to do whatever it takes to succeed. After a while, however, the enthusiasm wanes, we stop getting the “attaboys,” and before long we’re looking for a new job, whether out of choice or because the boss recommends that would be a good idea.
Bride and groom stand at the altar, all smiles and filled with emotion. They eagerly exchange their “I do’s” and can’t wait to get on with the thrill of being married. Years pass, maybe kids join the equation, bills pile up, and the initial attraction doesn’t seem to be there anymore. One or both parties decide that instead of “I do,” “I don’t.” Another marriage turns into a dismal statistic.
Nowhere is the importance of finishing well greater than in our spiritual life. The Bible is filled with examples of people who got off to excellent starts but stumbled before reaching the finish line. David, writer of many of the Psalms, slayer of Goliath and longtime king of Israel, experienced a less than spectacular finish. His family, consisting of children from numerous wives, became the poster child for dysfunctional families in that day. David’s sin with Bathsheba and his order to see her husband Uriah killed to cover up the scandal remained a permanent blemish on his legacy.
Solomon, David’s son with Bathsheba after their first child had died, started off in exemplary fashion. After David chose him to be the next king of Israel, Solomon assumed the throne with great humility. Instead of asking for material wealth and a long life, he asked the Lord only for wisdom. “So give your servant a discerning heart to govern your people and to distinguish between right and wrong. For who is able to govern this great people of yours?” (1 Kings 3:9).
Sounds great, right? Solomon became known for his great wisdom, oversaw great construction projects including the long-awaited temple to worship God in Jerusalem and his own palace, and accumulated riches beyond calculation. However, later in life he defied the Lord’s commands. Solomon began compromising, forging alliances with foreign powers rather than trusting in God alone. He also managed to acquire a total of 700 wives and 300 concubines from different nations and cultures.
We read the sad conclusion in 1 Kings 11:4, “As Solomon grew old, his wives turned his heart after other gods, and his heart was not fully devoted to the Lord his God, as the heart of David his father had been.” What a sad epitaph!
There are other biblical examples, most tragic of all being Judas Iscariot, who had been one of Jesus’ 12 closest disciples. Imagine being able to hang out with Jesus, day after day for much of His earthly ministry. And yet at the end, opportunistic, scheming Judas betrayed Jesus for 30 pieces of silver – and took his own life by hanging from a tree.
Contrast these with the apostle Paul, who had been transformed from persecutor of the Jewish followers of Jesus to one of His foremost advocates. Despite hardships of many kinds, beatings and stonings, at the end of his life Paul was able to state, without pride but simply as a fact, “I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time of my departure is at hand. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith” (2 Timothy 4:6-7).
That is the kind of epitaph I’d like to have said of me. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve observed the examples of my “elders,” some of whom are now in their 80’s and even 90. Many of them are still determined to “press on,” as Paul wrote in Philippians 3:14. They remain engaged in serving the Lord and others, sharing their faith whenever they have the opportunity and helping other believers advance in their faith by discipling, mentoring, and being accountability partners. They’re finishing well – and inspiring many others as they do so.
These friends eagerly anticipate one day standing before the Lord in heaven and hearing Him declare, “Well done, good and faithful servant!” (Matthew 25:21). Is that your hope and expectation?