When I was in college, the things I dreaded most were the tests, especially final exams. I remember the great sense of relief I always felt during final exam week when the last big test was over. Take great weight, remove from shoulders!
I eagerly looked forward to graduation. Surely that would be the end of all the tests. Was I wrong! I soon learned life is one test after another. Whether it’s being hired for a job and proving you’re able to do the work, getting married and discovering the challenges of being a spouse, or having children and learning parenting is rewarding but also hard work. It's one test after another.
There are the trials and tribulations that come with living in a broken, often unpredictable world. What do you do when there’s too much week left at the end of your pay? How do you respond when you get a health diagnosis and it’s not good, with major surgery in your imminent future? What’s your reaction when you’re driving along, minding your own business, and someone slams into your car?
We’ve all encountered these “tests.” And most of the time, you can’t study for them. You just have to deal with them as they come.
But adversity and hardships, the things we typically regard as tests, aren’t necessarily all bad. In retrospect we might actually be thankful for them. It was Soviet dissident Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn who wrote, “Thank you, prison, for having been in my life.” His time in a gulag for people who opposed the communist government proved to be a growing experience for him, both personally and spiritually.
The apostle Paul, no stranger to adverse situations, addressed this directly: “…we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope” (Romans 5:3-4).
Another apostle, James, had arrived at the same conclusion. Writing to Jews scattered around the known world, he urged them to “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything” (James 1: 1-4).
Just as lifting weights serves to build physical strength, the “weights” of everyday challenges can serve to build us up spiritually. It all depends on how we respond to them, whether we resolve to persevere even when things become so difficult we’re tempted to quit.
No sane person seeks hard times; we don’t enjoy pain and suffering. But believing that “in all things God words for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28), we can face difficulties with confidence and hope, knowing He’s allowing them for a reason.
But have you ever considered that success, prosperity, enjoying seasons of life when everything seems perfect also can serve as times of testing – tests that reveal our character?
We see it all the time with people who are in the public eye: politicians, entertainers, star athletes, prominent business leaders, even people who are “famous for being famous.” They’re in the news, grabbing headlines. People fawn over them, telling them how wonderful they are. Is it any surprise that some of them develop huge egos, convinced they’re really something?
That shouldn’t be an option for followers of Christ, however. The apostle Paul cautioned, “Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you” (Romans 12:3). In essence, this is saying there’s no room for “divas” in the Lord’s kingdom.
Humility certainly has an attractive quality to it. If someone is accomplished in some area of life, it’s fine to acknowledge that. But flaunting it or overflowing with pride isn’t attractive at all.
The Scriptures say how we respond when people speak well of us can become a form of testing. Proverbs 27:21 states this clearly: “The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold, but a man is tested by the praise he receives.” Precious metals like gold and silver are refined under extreme heat, removing the dross and increasing their purity. In a similar way, God can refine us not only through adversity but also through the “heat” of being praised. Do we become puffed up, even insufferable to be around?
When I first noticed that verse, I was the editor of a magazine for Christian business and professional people. We had made major changes in the publication, received a number of awards, and readers were responding very favorably. When I traveled or was attending a conference, people would come up to me and say how much they appreciated the magazine and its message about how to live out our faith in the workplace.
At first, it was nice to receive such affirmation, but after a while I realized a temptation was lurking. Would I start taking to heart what people were saying and let my head swell up while patting myself on the back? Or would I graciously accept the compliments but immediately redirect them to the Lord, who had given me the skills and passion I was using, along with the opportunity to lead the publication?
Our journey through everyday life is filled with tests; not all of them involve unpleasant circumstances. If things are going well for you, perhaps receiving high praise for the work you’re doing or for the family you’re raising, beware. It could be God’s way of saying, “This is a test!”
As the apostle James declared, “Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love Him” (James 1:12).