A guy in my morning exercise class, whenever he’s asked,
“How are you?” often responds, “Can’t complain. No one wants to hear it
anyway.” He’s right, of course. We don’t want to hear other people’s
complaints. We have enough of our own.
Take the weather, for example: Too hot. Too cold. Too wet.
Too dry. Or the government: Too big, too involved, or too controlling. Except
when we want highway potholes fixed, relief following disasters, or various
services provided when we need them. Then we can’t get enough government.
We complain when our favorite teams and players
under-perform. We complain when spouses, family members and friends fail to
meet our expectations. We complain when we go shopping: Unable to find a sales associate
when we need one. Or feeling harassed when a sales associate hovers nearby.
(Admittedly a rare occurrence these days.)
We complain about aches and pains, major and minor.
Especially as we get older. It’s almost a contest: “Any complaint you can make,
I can make better!”
Even at church we complain: The music’s too fast, too slow, too
loud, too contemporary, too old. The sermon wasn’t entertaining enough. Not
enough multi-media to hold our attention. The service ran too long, disrupting
our mealtime plans. And when we do go out to dinner, we complain about the food
and the service.
So it surprised me recently when I spotted a sign in an
antique store that read:
“Too blessed to complain.”
Even at its best, this life leaves us discontented, feeling like there should be more. |
When was the last time you felt that way? Have you ever felt that way? In our society,
discontent is viewed as a virtue. Marketing people make it their solemn duty
to keep us dissatisfied with what we have and where we go. According to them, nothing can be worse than status quo. So it seems unnatural to feel “too blessed to
complain,” doesn’t it?
To the contrary, the motto of our materialistic world is,
“too much is never enough.” No matter how much we’ve got, we can always
complain about wanting or needing more.
This is one reason I’ve marveled at the apostle Paul’s
declaration: “for I have learned to be
content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know
what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any
and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in
want” (Philippians 3:11-12).
This is a striking statement, particularly when you consider
where he was writing from – prison. No “woe is me”; no “life isn’t fair”; no
“why me and not so-and so?” How could Paul avoid grumbling and complaining in
confinement? How could he claim to be “content” in jail?
The secret, I believe, was his perspective. Paul remembered what
life was like before encountering Jesus Christ, and knew his life with Christ
was far better. Even though “before” he had been somewhat of a religious
celebrity, and “after” he was treated as a pariah by the religious
establishment. Paul recalled during his self-righteous, zealous persecution of those
that followed Jesus, his victims demonstrated an inner peace he’d never known –
until he, too, met Jesus.
Paul understood by refusing to complain, followers of Christ
set themselves apart from people around them. That’s why he wrote, “Do everything without complaining or
arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without
fault in a crooked and depraved generation” (Philippians 2:14-15).
And Paul knew that no matter how bad his life on earth got, another
life – a far better life beyond comprehension or imagination – awaited him. So,
most likely the apostle often thought, even if he might not have used the exact
words, he was “too blessed to complain.”
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